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		<title>I Turn My Dreams Into Reality</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Sep 2011 16:37:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Franck Pasquet</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Don&#8217;t you have dreams, visions or plans about things you&#8217;d love to have or accomplish? Having the dream is the easy part. Making it a reality can be more challenging. However, the good news is that there are proven techniques that can get you from where you are to where you want to be. Follow [...]]]></description>
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Don&#8217;t you have dreams, visions or plans about things you&#8217;d love to have or accomplish? Having the dream is the easy part. Making it a reality can be more challenging. However, the good news is that <em><strong>there are proven techniques that can get you from where you are to where you want to be.</strong></em></p>
<h3>Follow this process to bring your dreams to fruition:</h3>
<p>1. <strong>Turn your dream into a goal</strong>. When you have a goal, you have a true target. For a greater chance of success, your plan should have a deadline and it must be measureable.</p>
<p>* It has been said that dreams are goals without a deadline. <em><strong>Give yourself the gift of setting a deadline and things will start to happen.</strong></em></p>
<p>* You want your goal to be measurable because, if you can&#8217;t measure it, how will you know when you&#8217;ve succeeded?</p>
<p><span id="more-901"></span>* For example, this goal is measurable and has a deadline: &#8220;On or before June 1, I will weigh 150 lbs. or less.&#8221;</p>
<p>* Make your goal as desirable as possible without being unrealistic. If you feel that your goal is unreasonable, it&#8217;s much more difficult to encourage yourself to actually pursue it.</p>
<p>2. <strong>Prioritize your goal daily</strong>. Read and write your goal each day.</p>
<p>* You give instructions to your brain thousands of times a day. Let your mind know that your goal is something more important than, &#8220;I feel like eating a ham sandwich,&#8221; or &#8220;I need to stop at the grocery store on the way home.&#8221;</p>
<p>3. <strong>Make a list of negative associations.</strong> You probably have negative associations with achieving your goal; otherwise you&#8217;d already have it. So make a list of all the negative stuff that pops into your mind when you think about achieving your goal.</p>
<p>* Examine that list and think of ways to work around those challenges.</p>
<p>* Each time you notice a new negative association with your goal, add it to your list. Things will tend to change over time, and new challenges will reveal themselves.</p>
<p>4. <strong>Make a list of all the positives about reaching your goal.</strong> How would it make you feel? How would it change your life? How would it change your perspective of the world and yourself? What would your next goal be?</p>
<p>* <em><strong>Make your goal as attractive as possible.</strong></em> Envision your life after achieving the goal. This will help to keep your motivation levels high.</p>
<p>5. <strong>What do you need to make your goal a reality?</strong> Do you need to special license? Do you need a laptop? Is there some knowledge you must acquire? Make a list of what you need and figure out how you&#8217;re going to get it.</p>
<p>6. <strong>Catalog your available resources.</strong> Who do you know that could be helpful? What expertise or items do you need that someone else might have?</p>
<p>* <em><strong>Achieving difficult goals can rarely be accomplished alone</strong></em>; you&#8217;re likely to need some help and guidance. Look at the list you made in step 5 and see what you already have in your life that could help you on your path.</p>
<p>7. <strong>Track your progress.</strong> Measure your progress each day.</p>
<p>* <em><strong>Tracking is critical to making continued progress.</strong></em> You can only adjust your approach if you know how you&#8217;re doing. Consider making a chart if that&#8217;s applicable to your goal.</p>
<p>In many ways, working toward a goal is like baking a cake: if you follow the recipe, you&#8217;ll always pull a perfect cake out of the oven. Likewise, if you follow the above steps, you&#8217;ll find it much easier to achieve your dreams.</p>
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		<title>Act Now &#8211; Why You Should Never Wait Until Later to Follow Your Dreams</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Dec 2009 22:12:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Franck Pasquet</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes you feel like you&#8217;ve got all the time in the world to accomplish your dreams. Yet there are reminders every day that our time on Earth is short. Unfortunately, there&#8217;s no way to predict how much time you&#8217;ve got left, which is exactly why there&#8217;s no time like the present to make your dreams [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes you feel like you&#8217;ve got all the time in the world to accomplish your dreams. Yet there are reminders every day that our time on Earth is short. Unfortunately, there&#8217;s no way to predict how much time you&#8217;ve got left, which is exactly why <strong><em>there&#8217;s no time like the present to make your dreams come true!</em></strong></p>
<h2><strong>Concentrate On The Positive</strong></h2>
<p><strong><em>It&#8217;s vital to start with positive thoughts.</em></strong> When you think positively about yourself and your dreams, you&#8217;ll begin to believe that you can achieve anything. These initial positive emotions can lead to a dedicated drive and enthusiasm that&#8217;ll help build lasting momentum.</p>
<p>Remember that nearly everyone feels overwhelmed when you&#8217;re about to embark on a long journey. That&#8217;s exactly why it&#8217;s so easy to fall into negative patterns of thinking, but you <em>must</em> fight these thoughts. It can be hard to imagine that so much can be achieved simply by having positive thoughts, but it&#8217;s true!</p>
<p>The truth is, when you think about something as scary as <em>&#8220;I could die tomorrow,&#8221;</em> it&#8217;s hard <em>not</em> to be drawn into a panic. But instead of worrying about how much time you and your loved ones have left, <strong><em>concentrate on making the present moment as productive as it can be towards your true calling.</em></strong></p>
<h2><strong>Careful Planning</strong></h2>
<p>Once you&#8217;ve decided to take action, and you&#8217;ve battled your negative thoughts, it&#8217;s time to make some feasible plans to get you where you want to be.</p>
<p><strong>Keep these tips in mind as you go through your planning phase:</strong></p>
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<li><strong>Set realistic goals.</strong> If your goal is going to take years, give yourself years. You can&#8217;t expect everything to happen overnight.</li>
<li><strong>Be specific.</strong> Include all the details in your plans. If you stumble along the way, you&#8217;ll be comforted in knowing that you have your detailed plans to help you stay the course.</li>
<li><strong>Reward yourself.</strong> When you&#8217;ve made progress towards your goal, give yourself a reward. Even if your ultimate goal is far off, it&#8217;s fun and motivating to enjoy rewards as you complete steps toward your goal.</li>
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<h2><strong>Action In Small Steps</strong></h2>
<p>One of the biggest tips when it comes to following your dream is to <strong><em>break down your actions into small, manageable steps.</em></strong></p>
<p><strong><em> </em></strong></p>
<p>For example, your goal could be to become an airline pilot or you might want to start your own business. Both of these goals are hefty and have the potential to take years of work and training.</p>
<p>When you first think about these goals, it&#8217;s easy to be scared of how daunting they seem. Instead of resorting to fear, try breaking down these goals into dozens or even hundreds of small steps. Chances are that each small step is not nearly as overwhelming as the big picture.</p>
<p>At the same time, <strong><em>always keep the big picture in mind.</em></strong> When you visualize yourself reaching your end goal, it can be an image that gives you the drive to keep going during tough times.</p>
<h2><strong>Inspiring Others</strong></h2>
<p>Once you&#8217;ve achieved your goal, <strong><em>consider inspiring others to reach their goals, too.</em></strong> Perhaps you have some friends or family members who say things like, <em>&#8220;I&#8217;ve always wanted to do that,&#8221;</em> but they remain working at their dead end job.</p>
<p>Help them take action!</p>
<p>You&#8217;ll know from experience that, while it may be a risk, the reward is more than worth it.</p>
<p>Yes, following your dreams is even a reward in itself! It brings you joy in the present and hope for the future. So carpe diem &#8211; seize the day!</p>
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		<title>How to Make Your Dreams a Reality</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Aug 2009 02:18:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Franck Pasquet</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ever since we were children, we&#8217;ve had dreams. The sad thing is, over the years we convinced ourselves that our dreams could never come true. Because we assumed that they were mere fantasies, we didn&#8217;t even try to make them come true. Believe it or not, your dreams can be reality! However, you won&#8217;t get [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ever since we were children, we&#8217;ve had dreams. The sad thing is, over the years we convinced ourselves that our dreams could never come true. Because we assumed that they were mere fantasies, we didn&#8217;t even <em>try</em> to make them come true.</p>
<p><strong>Believe it or not, your dreams can be reality! </strong>However, you won&#8217;t get anywhere by simply making a wish. You have to take specific actions to increase your chances of living that life you always dreamed of.</p>
<h3>These are some simple techniques that can help you get started:</h3>
<p>1. <strong>You must possess passion and desire</strong>. These two elements are crucial for living your dream. Interestingly enough, you really can&#8217;t have one without the other. <em><strong>You must yearn to have something in your life so much (desire) and for the right reasons (passion). </strong></em></p>
<ul>
<li> A good example to illustrate the difference would be if you always wanted to be a professional singer. You know that you have the talent and all you want in life is to sing on a professional stage some day (<em>desire</em>). Your focus isn&#8217;t the money, fame, or prestige; you just have a true love for singing. It&#8217;s all you think about all-day, every day (<em>passion</em>).</li>
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<p>2. <strong>Patience.</strong> Patience isn&#8217;t easy, but in most case, our dreams don&#8217;t come true overnight. You need to work hard to achieve your full potential. Though it may take longer than you hoped, once you&#8217;re living your dream, you&#8217;ll realize that practicing patience was worth the rewards.</p>
<ul>
<li> <strong>Just remember to remain positive, focus on your dreams, and keep taking action to make those dreams a reality.</strong> After all, patience is a virtue!</li>
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<p>3. <strong>Sacrifice</strong>. Achieving your dreams will require self-sacrifice. This is usually where most people can gauge how serious they are about turning their dreams into reality. Whether it is giving up your TV time to work toward your goals, or spending extra hours at work to further your career, you have to be willing to sacrifice something.</p>
<ul>
<li><em><strong>If you&#8217;re truly passionate about your dreams, this shouldn&#8217;t be too difficult.</strong></em> If you do find sacrifice extremely difficult, it may be that you don&#8217;t possess enough desire, passion, willpower, or self-discipline to see your dreams through.</li>
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<p>4. <strong>Confidence</strong>. If you truly want to make your dreams real, you have to believe they can happen. You must possess an intense confidence in yourself and your talents; otherwise, your dreams will remain dreams forever.</p>
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<li> Sometimes your confidence may waiver, but as long as you can focus on your ultimate goal &#8211; and you can actually see yourself achieving this goal &#8211; you&#8217;re heading in the right direction.</li>
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<h3>Final Thoughts on Achieving Your Dreams</h3>
<p><em><strong>No one can steal your dreams away from you except you.</strong></em> Sometimes we can be our own worst enemy, biggest obstacle, and harshest critic. But that&#8217;s not what you need! You need to remember that, by taking action and implementing these simple tips and suggestions, your dreams can come true.</p>
<p>Keep your focus on the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow; it will happen if you only believe it can!</p>
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