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Nine Ways to Make Your Life More Exciting

Franck Pasquet — Mon, 08 Mar 2010 23:53:00 +0000

Wouldn’t it be great if your life was an exciting cornucopia of new adventures? Just imagine! No more days where you wonder if there’s something better. No more hearing yourself complain about being bored.

Life is full of chores and routines, and sometimes you might find yourself just going through the motions without even realizing that you could be seeking out some excitement instead.

Even though there will always be chores and other required tasks, the time you have afterwards can be a fulfilling set of exciting adventures. With a little ingenuity and action, boredom can become a faint memory of your past.

Try the following ways to add excitement to your life:

Challenge yourself. It doesn’t matter what you choose to do, but find something that challenges you. Push your limits. Not only will you be adding excitement to your life, you’ll also end up accomplishing more that you ever thought you could.
Dare yourself to do something totally different. You may find excitement by just going in a different direction than you’re used to. If you take daily walks, try a new route. If you always enjoy a certain meal at a restaurant, pick something else or even a new restaurant next time. These small variances from the norm can be just the pick-me-up you’re seeking.
Expand your comfort zone. Summon the courage to step out of your comfort zone. It can feel quite exciting, get your heart pumping faster, and make you feel alive again. When you step outside your comfort zone, you open up a door to a whole new world of exciting experiences.
Do something you’ve always wanted to do. If there’s something you’ve been meaning to try, now is the time. Go for it with all the gusto you’ve got!
Make adventures a priority. If necessary, schedule excitement into your daily schedule. This will force you to take it just as seriously as your other commitments, but also give you an allotted time where your focus is solely on enjoying an adventure.
Meet new people. Meeting new people can bring you a new variety of adventure and excitement. When you make a new friend, they may introduce you to new interests, hobbies, music, food, and more. It’s difficult to stay bored when you’re letting new people into your life.
Go out more. Make an extra effort to get out of the house. Whenever you walk out that door, the possibilities are endless. Make every outing a new adventure!
Plan a grand adventure. Perhaps you’ve always wanted to go to Hawaii or visit far away friends. You may have to spend a good amount of time saving up for the trip, but even the anticipation of the trip and planning the details can be exciting.
Volunteer your time. You may think that volunteering is only about the giving of yourself for the good of others. However, volunteering can be personally rewarding and even exciting. You may find that you genuinely enjoy helping other people, and you never know what you’ll discover in the course of volunteering.

Life can be as exciting as you want it to be. Take action to plan your time according to your priorities, and use these tips to help you take advantage of every moment you’ve got. You’ll be glad you did!

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7 Ways to Discover Your Life Purpose

Franck Pasquet — Tue, 05 Jan 2010 21:31:19 +0000

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How to Live Without Regret

Franck Pasquet — Thu, 24 Dec 2009 00:32:57 +0000

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Live the Life You Desire – Now!

Franck Pasquet — Wed, 11 Nov 2009 19:55:50 +0000

It seems that everything you’ve ever learned is about preparing yourself for a better future. It’s easy to get so caught up in the future that you lose the ability to enjoy the life you’re living right now. The Power Of The Present The first thing you should do to take action toward a better life is to realize the power that the present moment holds. There are different ways you can truly come to this realization, but the most popular and widely accepted method is meditation. Meditation allows you to clear your mind. It’s refreshing to focus on the present moment when you find the time to sit down and relax without any worries about the past or future. This personal reflection time will allow you to sort out your inner thoughts. On the flipside, take note of the number of times your mind tries to distract you from the present moment. You’ll be surprised to see just how many times your mind steals the present moment from you, in order to dwell on the past or future. Enjoying The Journey Your journey is all you have. Your goals are important, but it’s the path you take toward your goals that yield many fruits. You must be willing to enjoy your life and live consciously, even if you haven’t yet reached your goals. If you have a lofty goal, such as becoming a doctor or the CEO of a large company, realize that it will take much planning and years of experience. Once you reach your goal, you may feel fulfilled, but your life mustn’t b Continue Reading...

Achieving Balance in Your Life

Franck Pasquet — Sat, 01 Aug 2009 00:02:18 +0000

Finding balance in your life can be difficult to do, especially during these stressful days. There’s family and work obligations, plus extra-curricular activities for your kids and unexpected situations. It’s no wonder that you’re feeling out of balance and overwhelmed! There are things you can do to achieve balance in your life. Below are great starting points to get you on the road to a well-balanced life. 1. Start using a central calendar for every member of your family. This calendar can be a shared calendar online using Google Calendar, or it can be a paper calendar stuck on the fridge. Either way, have each family member write their activities on the calendar and be sure to include the time, location and mode of transportation. This way nothing gets missed and you can plan your schedule accordingly. If there are conflicting activities, this is a good time to teach your family about compromises and the give and take in relationships. There are ways to work things out and a little lesson in selflessness never hurt anyone. 2. Take a look at your daily routine. Are there activities you can cut out to make your life more balanced? In this society of rush-rush, convenience, and got-to-have-it-all or do-it-all, you may be feeling overwhelmed by all the extracurricular activities you’re involved in. As you look at each activity, ask yourself: Is this activity necessary for my well being? Can I live without being involved in this activity? I Continue Reading...

Dissolving Past Pain and Moving Forward in Your Life

Franck Pasquet — Thu, 23 Jul 2009 22:05:16 +0000

Have you ever been hurt so badly that you thought you’d never come out on the other side? Perhaps you’re still holding onto that grief. If you are, then it’s time to learn how to let go of past pain. You deserve to let it go and learn how to move forward with your life. Holding onto past pain and anguish is a kind of self-inflicted torture that can cause serious health risks as well as emotional scarring. The truth is, when you cling to the past, you’re internally changing your present. How can something you’ve kept inside for so long just be let go? It’s not an easy task, but it can be done with a little effort and self-reflection. Here are some ways you can let go of past pain and disappointment, so you can move forward with your head held high: 1. Know what’s holding you back. What are you holding onto and why? Identify the things you’re keeping inside that you shouldn’t be. * For example, maybe your best friend betrayed you in a way that broke your trust. Recognize this and figure out a way to finally deal with it. Get in touch with them again, then explain the pain they’ve caused. * They may not even be aware they did anything to upset you. Whether or not they apologize isn’t important. While it may be nice, you can’t control others or force them to say sorry. However, by simply voicing your feelings, you are finding closure from the hurtful situation. * Getting closure on something that was left op Continue Reading...

Discovering Your Life’s Purpose

Franck Pasquet — Wed, 08 Jul 2009 01:02:23 +0000

There is a purpose for your life, whether you believe it or not. You may have to take several paths, but with a little digging, you can find where you’re meant to be. The first clue to figuring out your purpose in life is to consider what natural talents, gifts and abilities you’re born with. Are you artistic or musical? Is it easy for you to talk to people? Are you a natural communicator? Do you love to socialize? Do you love to decorate and rearrange your home? Are you good at taking charge? Are you creative and crafty? Do you understand electronics and technical gadgets? Do you understand computer technology? Do people compliment you on your style? Are you a good writer? Do you have good organizational skills? Once you figure out what talents naturally live within you, you can then understand what you’re supposed to be doing with those gifts and talents. This is your purpose in life. What Do You Love to Do? Have you ever sat down and really reflected on what you love to do? There are literally millions of possibilities, so start with the gifts and talents you were born with. From there figure out what you love to do that requires using those gifts and talents. If you’re artistic or musical, teaching others how to draw, paint or play an instrument may be your calling in life. Being naturally social, you might consider being an organizer for social events. If you’re always redecorating and rearranging your home, why not get paid to do it Continue Reading...

How to simplify your life

Franck Pasquet — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 08:18:12 +0000

Confucius once said, “Life is really simple, but we insist on making it complicated.” If we make life complicated and fill it up with a bunch “stuff,” how can we ever focus on what matters most? Many of us are running around trying to squeeze everything we can out of life when, in fact, we’d be a whole lot happier and healthier if we savored the beauty of simplicity! Here are some tips you can use today to simplify your life: Clutter. When you eliminate the clutter around you, you’ll gain a deeper appreciation for the things are dearest to you. Ask yourself: When was the last time I read the stack of books piled up on the floor? When did I last notice the details on one of those little trinkets I got while on vacation? When did I last wear the scarf lying on the closet floor? Give this stuff to someone who needs it! De-cluttering will give you an opportunity to enjoy the things that truly matter to you. Plus you’ll feel a sense of relief with an organized working and living space. Food. Food is another aspect of your life that can be simplified in many ways. Instead of worrying about the next bite, enjoy the taste of the food that’s already in your mouth. Savor it. Let it all sink in and try to taste each flavor. Also, consider the ingredients in your food. Take the time to use quality ingredients instead of processed or chemically enhanced foods. The end result will taste better, and your body and mind will thank you Continue Reading...