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		<title>Improve Your Life with Positive Self-Talk</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Mar 2010 20:53:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Franck Pasquet</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[photo credit: Michael Brownlee How you think about yourself makes a big difference in how you feel. You can avoid feeling down or upset if you know what to say to yourself and how to say it. Even during difficult times, you can find moments of joy and blessings to talk to yourself about. No [...]]]></description>
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<p>How you think about yourself makes a big difference in how you feel. You can avoid feeling down or upset if you know what to say to yourself and <em>how</em> to say it. Even during difficult times, you can find moments of joy and blessings to talk to yourself about.</p>
<p>No matter what you want to do in life, self-talk can help you accomplish your dreams, goals, and desires. <strong><em>Believing in yourself is a strong component of moving forward into the life you really want and deserve. </em></strong>Positive self-talk can bring you this belief and instill within you the confidence to succeed.</p>
<p><span id="more-539"></span><strong>Discover the Beauty in Your Life</strong></p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p>When you face serious challenges in your life, being unhappy and speaking negatively to yourself won&#8217;t change anything for the better. Instead, seek out joy in positive affirmations of your continued worth.</p>
<p>The problems you may be facing have <em>absolutely nothing</em> to do with your value as a human being. <strong><em>Remind yourself of your great value!</em></strong></p>
<p>Positive self-talk is not about being unrealistic or lying to yourself. It&#8217;s about seeing the beauty and value in yourself and others. <strong><em>Each one of us has something we can give</em></strong> and we each have a purpose and a reason to be here.</p>
<h2><strong>Using Positive Self-Talk Each Day</strong></h2>
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<p>How do you take advantage of positive self-talk? When it comes to talking to yourself, there are no specific rules. You can focus on anything about you or your surroundings that&#8217;s positive.</p>
<p>Avoid letting negative or upsetting thoughts creep in. Things might not be going your way at any particular moment, but there are better days ahead, and the fact that you&#8217;re alive is something to be positive about!</p>
<p><strong>Here are some tips to help you get started using positive self-talk to bring about a joyful, fulfilled life:</strong></p>
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<li><strong>Remember something others like about you.</strong> Recall a positive comment someone made about you in the past. Even if you don&#8217;t see the reason for the compliment, someone else obviously did. Use that to your advantage to remind yourself of your great qualities and talents.</li>
<li><strong>What do you like about yourself?</strong> Start small, if you prefer. You don&#8217;t have to think or feel (or say) that you&#8217;re perfect, but pick <em>one thing</em> that you like about yourself, or that you can accept about yourself, and be pleased with that.</li>
<li><strong>Speak out loud.</strong> Sure, you might feel a little silly at first. You don&#8217;t have to do it when anyone else is around, but say your affirmations aloud whenever you can. That way you <em>hear</em> the good things about you, too.</li>
<li><strong>Set aside time to practice your positive self-talk.</strong> If you don&#8217;t put it into your schedule, it&#8217;s easy to forget about it or decide that you&#8217;ll get to it later. <strong><em>Make it a priority,</em></strong> so it becomes a part of your daily routine.</li>
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<h2><strong>The Benefits of Positive Self-Talk</strong></h2>
<p>The benefits you&#8217;ll get from positive self-talk will depend on your commitment to it. If you practice it each day, it&#8217;ll become second nature to you. <strong><em>When others say negative things, it&#8217;ll be less likely to take root in your mind,</em></strong> since you&#8217;ll already be filled with positive information about your worth.</p>
<p>Regardless of what stage of life you&#8217;re in, there&#8217;s always room for more happiness. Even in the face of despair, there are opportunities for great joy and growth. Avoid missing out on those opportunities because you don&#8217;t see your worth as a person. Instead, <strong><em>you can expect the best because of your positive self-talk.</em></strong></p>
<p>Positive self-talk can help you rise higher in your career, family life, spiritual life, and any other area that matters to you. Friends and family members will notice your new-found confidence, and so will your co-workers, boss, and others. You just may find that positive self-talk leads you to some amazing new opportunities!</p>
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		<title>How to Develop a Prosperity Mindset</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Feb 2010 21:11:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Franck Pasquet</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Having a prosperity mindset is a key factor in reaching your financial goals. It keeps you on track toward your goals regardless of any challenges you encounter along the way.
These strategies below will help you foster a prosperity mindset that can enable you to live the life you desire.
Keep Your Focus
If you find that your mind wanders from idea to idea, create one set plan and stick to it. In your plan, create a list of specific achievable action steps that lead to your goal, and then work on at least one task each day to help maintain your focus.
Plan for Success
It doesn&#8217;t matter how focused you are if you don&#8217;t have a proper plan. Your financial goals aren&#8217;t going to happen just by deciding on a number. Make some clear plans on how you&#8217;re going to get there. This will get you past the dream phase so you can start making your ultimate goals a reality.
Be as detailed in your plan as possible and set each task as a mini-goal in itself. Achieving these small goals on a daily basis keeps you motivated and moving along toward your big goal.
Model Yourself After Successful People
One of the best decisions you can make is to use other successful people as your role models. Think about what you admire about these people and then try to model their behavior.
See if you can set up an interview with someone you feel is successful. You may wish to find someone in a similar career so you can study his or her success story.
You&#8217;ll also want to study the  <a href='http://beingpositive.net/512/how-to-develop-a-prosperity-mindset/' rel="nofollow">Continue Reading...</a></p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Having a prosperity mindset is a key factor in reaching your financial goals. It keeps you on track toward your goals regardless of any challenges you encounter along the way.
These strategies below will help you foster a prosperity mindset that can enable you to live the life you desire.
Keep Your Focus
If you find that your mind wanders from idea to idea, create one set plan and stick to it. In your plan, create a list of specific achievable action steps that lead to your goal, and then work on at least one task each day to help maintain your focus.
Plan for Success
It doesn&#8217;t matter how focused you are if you don&#8217;t have a proper plan. Your financial goals aren&#8217;t going to happen just by deciding on a number. Make some clear plans on how you&#8217;re going to get there. This will get you past the dream phase so you can start making your ultimate goals a reality.
Be as detailed in your plan as possible and set each task as a mini-goal in itself. Achieving these small goals on a daily basis keeps you motivated and moving along toward your big goal.
Model Yourself After Successful People
One of the best decisions you can make is to use other successful people as your role models. Think about what you admire about these people and then try to model their behavior.
See if you can set up an interview with someone you feel is successful. You may wish to find someone in a similar career so you can study his or her success story.
You&#8217;ll also want to study the  <a href='http://beingpositive.net/512/how-to-develop-a-prosperity-mindset/' rel="nofollow">Continue Reading...</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Turn Bad Habits into Good Ones</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Nov 2009 01:31:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Franck Pasquet</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Bad habits can form without you even knowing it and they can prove to be difficult to break. However, it&#8217;s always the first step that&#8217;s the most difficult. Once you get started, you&#8217;ll build both momentum and confidence.
With a proper focus and willingness to succeed, you&#8217;ll find that you can overcome any bad habit. Then you can choose to replace that bad habit with a more positive one.
Breaking Bad Patterns of Behavior
Before you can tackle the problem of replacing a bad habit with a good one, you&#8217;ll need to be mentally prepared to detach yourself from the habit. A strong mindset allows you to tackle nearly anything!
Keep these tips in mind as you prepare to transform your habits:

Get organized by figuring out the bad pattern you&#8217;d like to break.
Start small, with one habit at a time. Trying to change too much at once can overwhelm you.
Decide that you truly want to change. If you don&#8217;t want to change, you simply won&#8217;t.
Don&#8217;t judge yourself. If you make a mistake, get back in there and keep trying.

The Substitution
The key to permanently breaking a bad habit lies in being able to replace it with a good one. If you engage in a bad habit and decide to simply stop entirely, it can be incredibly tough. You might be okay for a while, but chances are you&#8217;ll find yourself back to your old bad habits in no time.
Consider some of these situations for substituting good habits for bad ones:
1. Exercise. Exercise is an excell <a href='http://beingpositive.net/471/turn-bad-habits-into-good-ones/' rel="nofollow">Continue Reading...</a></p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bad habits can form without you even knowing it and they can prove to be difficult to break. However, it&#8217;s always the first step that&#8217;s the most difficult. Once you get started, you&#8217;ll build both momentum and confidence.
With a proper focus and willingness to succeed, you&#8217;ll find that you can overcome any bad habit. Then you can choose to replace that bad habit with a more positive one.
Breaking Bad Patterns of Behavior
Before you can tackle the problem of replacing a bad habit with a good one, you&#8217;ll need to be mentally prepared to detach yourself from the habit. A strong mindset allows you to tackle nearly anything!
Keep these tips in mind as you prepare to transform your habits:

Get organized by figuring out the bad pattern you&#8217;d like to break.
Start small, with one habit at a time. Trying to change too much at once can overwhelm you.
Decide that you truly want to change. If you don&#8217;t want to change, you simply won&#8217;t.
Don&#8217;t judge yourself. If you make a mistake, get back in there and keep trying.

The Substitution
The key to permanently breaking a bad habit lies in being able to replace it with a good one. If you engage in a bad habit and decide to simply stop entirely, it can be incredibly tough. You might be okay for a while, but chances are you&#8217;ll find yourself back to your old bad habits in no time.
Consider some of these situations for substituting good habits for bad ones:
1. Exercise. Exercise is an excell <a href='http://beingpositive.net/471/turn-bad-habits-into-good-ones/' rel="nofollow">Continue Reading...</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Using Meditation to Bring You Greater Confidence</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Nov 2009 05:11:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Franck Pasquet</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Many might find it shocking that meditation can be used to boost confidence. The truth is that meditation can be used to strengthen any emotion or skill.
When you meditate, you bring a great amount of awareness into your mind. In the moment of meditation you hold the power to decide exactly what your life is all about. The past and the future melt away, and all that&#8217;s left is you. So when you actively decide to boost confidence, you will!
Bringing Past Feelings Into The Present
The first thing you should do is familiarize yourself with the feelings associated with confidence. Take a moment to recall different times in your life that you felt especially confident. How exactly did you feel?
For example, maybe you remember a time when you entered a sports competition. You trained hard and you believed in yourself. How did you feel right before you started?
Let&#8217;s say that you now have to lead a group of people at work. You&#8217;re feeling a little scared about it because all of the details are not falling into place as you&#8217;d like. Meditate on the feelings of confidence. Bring the positive emotions from past successes into your present and approach your problem with those positive feelings instead.
Picturing The Future
In order to strengthen your meditation skills to encourage greater confidence, it may help to picture future circumstances turning out in your favor. When you sit down to meditate, be very detailed in your visions. Use the confident feelings you k <a href='http://beingpositive.net/465/using-meditation-to-bring-you-greater-confidence/' rel="nofollow">Continue Reading...</a></p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Many might find it shocking that meditation can be used to boost confidence. The truth is that meditation can be used to strengthen any emotion or skill.
When you meditate, you bring a great amount of awareness into your mind. In the moment of meditation you hold the power to decide exactly what your life is all about. The past and the future melt away, and all that&#8217;s left is you. So when you actively decide to boost confidence, you will!
Bringing Past Feelings Into The Present
The first thing you should do is familiarize yourself with the feelings associated with confidence. Take a moment to recall different times in your life that you felt especially confident. How exactly did you feel?
For example, maybe you remember a time when you entered a sports competition. You trained hard and you believed in yourself. How did you feel right before you started?
Let&#8217;s say that you now have to lead a group of people at work. You&#8217;re feeling a little scared about it because all of the details are not falling into place as you&#8217;d like. Meditate on the feelings of confidence. Bring the positive emotions from past successes into your present and approach your problem with those positive feelings instead.
Picturing The Future
In order to strengthen your meditation skills to encourage greater confidence, it may help to picture future circumstances turning out in your favor. When you sit down to meditate, be very detailed in your visions. Use the confident feelings you k <a href='http://beingpositive.net/465/using-meditation-to-bring-you-greater-confidence/' rel="nofollow">Continue Reading...</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>How Your Support Group Can Ensure Your Success</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Oct 2009 04:37:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Franck Pasquet</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s natural to strive for solving your problems on your own. Sometimes pride holds you back from asking for help, or it could be embarrassment or fear. Either way, you&#8217;ll soon realize that you can solve your problems quicker and more efficiently by joining or developing a support group.
The Benefits Of Support Groups
Support groups have many benefits. Just the venting factor alone can be enough to make support groups worth it. Even if a solution may not exist, just knowing there are others enduring your situation can help you feel at ease.
A support group can provide many other added benefits:
1. Confidence. Support groups can restore your confidence. With confidence and drive, there will be nothing in between you and your ultimate goals.
2. Emotional Release. You may often forget the true importance of an emotional release. When everything is all bottled up inside of you, you can get agitated and your emotions will manifest themselves in unhealthy ways. Support groups give you the important emotional releases that can open you up to a breakthrough.
3. Information. Knowledge is power. Support groups give you an amazingly concentrated way of sharing a wealth of knowledge. When you listen to a speaker or counselor, you&#8217;re only getting one perspective. When you listen to the members of a support group, you can share real experiences through many different perspectives.
4. Relationships. Being a member of a support group will not only help you find success in t <a href='http://beingpositive.net/448/how-your-support-group-can-ensure-your-success/' rel="nofollow">Continue Reading...</a></p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s natural to strive for solving your problems on your own. Sometimes pride holds you back from asking for help, or it could be embarrassment or fear. Either way, you&#8217;ll soon realize that you can solve your problems quicker and more efficiently by joining or developing a support group.
The Benefits Of Support Groups
Support groups have many benefits. Just the venting factor alone can be enough to make support groups worth it. Even if a solution may not exist, just knowing there are others enduring your situation can help you feel at ease.
A support group can provide many other added benefits:
1. Confidence. Support groups can restore your confidence. With confidence and drive, there will be nothing in between you and your ultimate goals.
2. Emotional Release. You may often forget the true importance of an emotional release. When everything is all bottled up inside of you, you can get agitated and your emotions will manifest themselves in unhealthy ways. Support groups give you the important emotional releases that can open you up to a breakthrough.
3. Information. Knowledge is power. Support groups give you an amazingly concentrated way of sharing a wealth of knowledge. When you listen to a speaker or counselor, you&#8217;re only getting one perspective. When you listen to the members of a support group, you can share real experiences through many different perspectives.
4. Relationships. Being a member of a support group will not only help you find success in t <a href='http://beingpositive.net/448/how-your-support-group-can-ensure-your-success/' rel="nofollow">Continue Reading...</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Stop Begging! Start Manifesting</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Oct 2009 06:33:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Franck Pasquet</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Do you remember that first spark of hope you felt when you watched The Secret? I clearly remember the desire that filled my heart, knowing that – Yes, I can make my dreams come true – FINALLY!
But how many of you soon saw that hope dwindle into frustration? How many of you (and be honest now) started muttering things like:
- “It seems to work for other people, but I just can’t get it right.”
- “I’m frustrated that sometimes I can get it to work, but sometimes I can’t. What’s the trick?”
- “Why am I having so much trouble?”
- “I think the universe is against me.”
- “I’m trying very, VERY hard but still nothing is happening!”
Don’t worry, you’re not alone. About 97% of people also couldn’t make the Law of Attraction work for them the first time round. Think about it, just like anything else, you have to practice many times before you see success. A child doesn’t learn to walk without falling over a couple of times, right?
But in practice, everything is easier said and done. When you’re frustrated, it’s hard to stay positive. And it’s especially harder to stay positive when the evidence all around you is screams negativity like the unstable economy or senseless acts of violence such as those recently seen in Mumbai.
And do you know what happens when you fail to stay positive? That’s right – you start attracting negative things in to your life.
So how can you make the Law of Attraction work for you – without getting frustrated <a href='http://beingpositive.net/444/stop-begging-start-manifesting/' rel="nofollow">Continue Reading...</a></p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you remember that first spark of hope you felt when you watched The Secret? I clearly remember the desire that filled my heart, knowing that – Yes, I can make my dreams come true – FINALLY!
But how many of you soon saw that hope dwindle into frustration? How many of you (and be honest now) started muttering things like:
- “It seems to work for other people, but I just can’t get it right.”
- “I’m frustrated that sometimes I can get it to work, but sometimes I can’t. What’s the trick?”
- “Why am I having so much trouble?”
- “I think the universe is against me.”
- “I’m trying very, VERY hard but still nothing is happening!”
Don’t worry, you’re not alone. About 97% of people also couldn’t make the Law of Attraction work for them the first time round. Think about it, just like anything else, you have to practice many times before you see success. A child doesn’t learn to walk without falling over a couple of times, right?
But in practice, everything is easier said and done. When you’re frustrated, it’s hard to stay positive. And it’s especially harder to stay positive when the evidence all around you is screams negativity like the unstable economy or senseless acts of violence such as those recently seen in Mumbai.
And do you know what happens when you fail to stay positive? That’s right – you start attracting negative things in to your life.
So how can you make the Law of Attraction work for you – without getting frustrated <a href='http://beingpositive.net/444/stop-begging-start-manifesting/' rel="nofollow">Continue Reading...</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>How to Overcome the Fear of Failure</title>
		<link>http://beingpositive.net/379/how-to-overcome-the-fear-of-failure/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Oct 2009 20:22:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Franck Pasquet</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Failure has touched the lives of everyone at some point. Because of this fact, you know how horrible it can make you feel. No wonder you strive to avoid it at all costs!  But the problem is that this fear of failure can become one of your biggest life fears.
Fear of failure is a fear of the great unknown. You don&#8217;t know what&#8217;s truly out there, and so you&#8217;re scared. You might even be tempted to give up entirely in order to avoid failure. You&#8217;ll soon realize that not trying at all is the ultimate failure because there is no way to win without trying.
How can you overcome this fear and gain the confidence you need to seek the life you desire?
Consider trying one or more of these actions steps:
1 - Imagine the worst case scenario. Of course, you should spend time imagining everything turning out well, but it actually helps to imagine the worst case as well. This is because, while horrible, imagining the worst case gives your fears a face. Your fears are then no longer the unknown and they may not be quite as scary.

When you figure out the worst thing that can happen, you just might realize that the most a failure can do is to delay your ultimate goal. But if you can figure out how to get past this possible delay, you&#8217;re back on track!

2- Take bold action. The fear of failure can hold you hostage. When you take bold action, you&#8217;re able to learn from your mistakes so you can continuously moving forward.
3 -Talk to successful people. Ask them a <a href='http://beingpositive.net/379/how-to-overcome-the-fear-of-failure/' rel="nofollow">Continue Reading...</a></p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Failure has touched the lives of everyone at some point. Because of this fact, you know how horrible it can make you feel. No wonder you strive to avoid it at all costs!  But the problem is that this fear of failure can become one of your biggest life fears.
Fear of failure is a fear of the great unknown. You don&#8217;t know what&#8217;s truly out there, and so you&#8217;re scared. You might even be tempted to give up entirely in order to avoid failure. You&#8217;ll soon realize that not trying at all is the ultimate failure because there is no way to win without trying.
How can you overcome this fear and gain the confidence you need to seek the life you desire?
Consider trying one or more of these actions steps:
1 - Imagine the worst case scenario. Of course, you should spend time imagining everything turning out well, but it actually helps to imagine the worst case as well. This is because, while horrible, imagining the worst case gives your fears a face. Your fears are then no longer the unknown and they may not be quite as scary.

When you figure out the worst thing that can happen, you just might realize that the most a failure can do is to delay your ultimate goal. But if you can figure out how to get past this possible delay, you&#8217;re back on track!

2- Take bold action. The fear of failure can hold you hostage. When you take bold action, you&#8217;re able to learn from your mistakes so you can continuously moving forward.
3 -Talk to successful people. Ask them a <a href='http://beingpositive.net/379/how-to-overcome-the-fear-of-failure/' rel="nofollow">Continue Reading...</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>I take life one day at a time.</title>
		<link>http://beingpositive.net/336/i-take-life-one-day-at-a-time/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Aug 2009 23:52:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Franck Pasquet</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Life affirmations]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>My life is a great adventure and I want to be able to appreciate every moment. Taking life one day at a time provides me the opportunity to do this. I let go of worrying about the past or the future and immerse myself in the present day.
Each morning, as the dawn brings me a new day, I look forward with excitement to living with purpose. Each day brings me new opportunities. It&#8217;s like I get a fresh start on life every morning, and I love this feeling!
I make no pre-suppositions about what the day will bring. If it brings challenges, I know I have the confidence to find solutions to overcome them. If it brings pleasant things, I can enjoy them and be grateful for their presence.
Living my life one day at a time also gets me through the hard times in my life. If it&#8217;s a particularly difficult day, I remind myself that, &#8220;This, too, shall pass,&#8221; and I know that it is only one step &#8211; one day &#8211; in my life&#8217;s journey.
I make the best of every day, for I know that I will not have this opportunity again. When I make a conscious effort to take advantage of everything each day brings, I find that there are more and more great days after that!
Making a habit of taking life one day at a time reduces my stress, makes my life more exciting, and brings me more joy than anything else I could do.
Today, I choose to let the past stay in the past, let the future bring what it may, and immerse myself in this present day.
Self-Reflection Questions:
1. Do I l <a href='http://beingpositive.net/336/i-take-life-one-day-at-a-time/' rel="nofollow">Continue Reading...</a></p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My life is a great adventure and I want to be able to appreciate every moment. Taking life one day at a time provides me the opportunity to do this. I let go of worrying about the past or the future and immerse myself in the present day.
Each morning, as the dawn brings me a new day, I look forward with excitement to living with purpose. Each day brings me new opportunities. It&#8217;s like I get a fresh start on life every morning, and I love this feeling!
I make no pre-suppositions about what the day will bring. If it brings challenges, I know I have the confidence to find solutions to overcome them. If it brings pleasant things, I can enjoy them and be grateful for their presence.
Living my life one day at a time also gets me through the hard times in my life. If it&#8217;s a particularly difficult day, I remind myself that, &#8220;This, too, shall pass,&#8221; and I know that it is only one step &#8211; one day &#8211; in my life&#8217;s journey.
I make the best of every day, for I know that I will not have this opportunity again. When I make a conscious effort to take advantage of everything each day brings, I find that there are more and more great days after that!
Making a habit of taking life one day at a time reduces my stress, makes my life more exciting, and brings me more joy than anything else I could do.
Today, I choose to let the past stay in the past, let the future bring what it may, and immerse myself in this present day.
Self-Reflection Questions:
1. Do I l <a href='http://beingpositive.net/336/i-take-life-one-day-at-a-time/' rel="nofollow">Continue Reading...</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>Build Confidence With Daily Affirmations</title>
		<link>http://beingpositive.net/315/build-confidence-with-daily-affirmations/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Aug 2009 19:49:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Franck Pasquet</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Do you suffer from low self-esteem? When something negative happens in your life, do you beat yourself up about it time and time again?
Focusing on phrases such as: &#8220;That was stupid,&#8221; &#8220;I am so fat,&#8221; &#8220;No one loves me,&#8221; and a host of other negative statements can easily zap the happiness right out of your life.
Luckily, this doesn&#8217;t have to be permanent. Positive affirmations can turn your negativity around. Affirmations are simply statements or phrases, which focus on the positive rather than the negative.
These mantras can actually reprogram your subconscious thinking and bring you a plethora of good benefits that you&#8217;ll enjoy for years to come!
Here are some easy ways to incorporate positive affirmations into your life:
1. Affirmations should always be in the present tense. Begin your statements with &#8220;I can&#8221; &#8220;I have&#8221; or &#8220;I am,&#8221; instead of a phrase like &#8220;I will&#8221; or &#8220;I may.&#8221;
* Examples of this would be &#8220;I have a beautiful body&#8221; and &#8220;I am so intelligent,&#8221; instead of &#8220;I will never be so stupid again.&#8221;
* Choose statements that focus on the positive attributes you want to encourage, saying them as if you already exhibit that behavior.
2. Address yourself by name when expressing your affirmations. Believe it or not, this does make a big difference. When you say: &#8220;I, Jane Doe, am a beautiful person both inside and out,&#8221; it makes  <a href='http://beingpositive.net/315/build-confidence-with-daily-affirmations/' rel="nofollow">Continue Reading...</a></p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you suffer from low self-esteem? When something negative happens in your life, do you beat yourself up about it time and time again?
Focusing on phrases such as: &#8220;That was stupid,&#8221; &#8220;I am so fat,&#8221; &#8220;No one loves me,&#8221; and a host of other negative statements can easily zap the happiness right out of your life.
Luckily, this doesn&#8217;t have to be permanent. Positive affirmations can turn your negativity around. Affirmations are simply statements or phrases, which focus on the positive rather than the negative.
These mantras can actually reprogram your subconscious thinking and bring you a plethora of good benefits that you&#8217;ll enjoy for years to come!
Here are some easy ways to incorporate positive affirmations into your life:
1. Affirmations should always be in the present tense. Begin your statements with &#8220;I can&#8221; &#8220;I have&#8221; or &#8220;I am,&#8221; instead of a phrase like &#8220;I will&#8221; or &#8220;I may.&#8221;
* Examples of this would be &#8220;I have a beautiful body&#8221; and &#8220;I am so intelligent,&#8221; instead of &#8220;I will never be so stupid again.&#8221;
* Choose statements that focus on the positive attributes you want to encourage, saying them as if you already exhibit that behavior.
2. Address yourself by name when expressing your affirmations. Believe it or not, this does make a big difference. When you say: &#8220;I, Jane Doe, am a beautiful person both inside and out,&#8221; it makes  <a href='http://beingpositive.net/315/build-confidence-with-daily-affirmations/' rel="nofollow">Continue Reading...</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>I feel successful and I let go of all obstacles that stand in my way.</title>
		<link>http://beingpositive.net/311/i-feel-successful-and-i-let-go-of-all-obstacles-that-stand-in-my-way-2/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 15 Aug 2009 07:58:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Franck Pasquet</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I am a success! Each day I allow myself the luxury of enjoying the good feelings that come with my achievements.
I am also confident that I can overcome every challenge. Rather than bemoan an issue, I seek solutions and take decisive action to continue moving forward toward my goals.
To ensure my success in any endeavor, I divide my goal into attainable steps and then take action immediately to build momentum.
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As I complete each step, I reward myself. I feel good about it and proud of myself for accomplishing a necessary task that puts me closer and closer to my goal.
It doesn&#8217;t matter if the task was small or if it only took a few minutes to complete it. A success is a success no matter how you look at it! So I feel good about my achievements and I let it bring me the confidence to move forward.
When an obstacle raises its head, I tackle it immediately. Perhaps there is a way I can simply sidestep this challenge and move on. Perhaps it is really bringing me the opportunity to find a better way to get to my goal.
Whatever the challenge, I seek a solution of action steps that keep me moving forward, even if there is a detour along the way.
Today, I choose to complete at least one action step toward an important goal and celebrate my success so I can look forward to doing the same again tomorrow.
Self-Reflection Questions:
1. Do I feel like the success I know I am?
2. What successes, large or small, can I celebrate today?
3. What action <a href='http://beingpositive.net/311/i-feel-successful-and-i-let-go-of-all-obstacles-that-stand-in-my-way-2/' rel="nofollow">Continue Reading...</a></p>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am a success! Each day I allow myself the luxury of enjoying the good feelings that come with my achievements.
I am also confident that I can overcome every challenge. Rather than bemoan an issue, I seek solutions and take decisive action to continue moving forward toward my goals.
To ensure my success in any endeavor, I divide my goal into attainable steps and then take action immediately to build momentum.
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As I complete each step, I reward myself. I feel good about it and proud of myself for accomplishing a necessary task that puts me closer and closer to my goal.
It doesn&#8217;t matter if the task was small or if it only took a few minutes to complete it. A success is a success no matter how you look at it! So I feel good about my achievements and I let it bring me the confidence to move forward.
When an obstacle raises its head, I tackle it immediately. Perhaps there is a way I can simply sidestep this challenge and move on. Perhaps it is really bringing me the opportunity to find a better way to get to my goal.
Whatever the challenge, I seek a solution of action steps that keep me moving forward, even if there is a detour along the way.
Today, I choose to complete at least one action step toward an important goal and celebrate my success so I can look forward to doing the same again tomorrow.
Self-Reflection Questions:
1. Do I feel like the success I know I am?
2. What successes, large or small, can I celebrate today?
3. What action <a href='http://beingpositive.net/311/i-feel-successful-and-i-let-go-of-all-obstacles-that-stand-in-my-way-2/' rel="nofollow">Continue Reading...</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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